♥StepMates

For couples who love a little competition

Walk together. A little kindness.

StepMates quietly compares your steps with your partner's each day. Whoever walks less does one small, sweet kindness — make the tea, do the dishes, plan a walk. No money. No gifts. Just the two of you, moving more.

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iPhone & Apple Watch · steps sync automatically · your data stays between you two

Good evening, Amina
Today
🔥 12 days walked together
6,200 Amina
Behind
7,100 Yusuf
Ahead
TODAY'S KINDNESS · Make the tea tonight ♥

Three taps and you're walking

No spreadsheets, no manual logging. It runs quietly in the background.

1 · Connect
Pair with your partner using a 6-character code. That's the whole setup.
2 · Walk
Your steps sync automatically from Apple Health — your watch and phone do the counting.
3 · A little kindness
Each evening, whoever walked less gets one small, free kindness to do. Sweet, not serious.

Little things that keep it fun

🔄 Auto step syncApple Health does the counting. You never type a number.
🔥 Streaks & calendarSee your "walked together" streak grow, day by day.
💛 Sweet nudgesSend a "Catch me 😏" or "Walk with me?" when they're slacking.
🤍 Mercy, alwaysHard day? Forgive today's kindness with one tap. No pressure.
🔁 Don't like it? RerollSwap today's task — but only if you both agree.
🔒 Just for you twoPrivate by design. Your steps are never shared or sold.

No money. No gifts. No betting.

Every task is a small, free act of love — make the tea, fold the laundry, plan a walking date. It's about moving together and being a little kinder, never about winning or spending.

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Questions

Do I need an Apple Watch?

No — your iPhone counts steps on its own. A Watch just makes it more accurate, and the two sync automatically.

Is it really free of money stuff between us?

Yes — money never changes hands between partners. No money forfeits, no gifts, no betting. Tasks are small, free kindnesses, and mercy is always free. (On a really stuck day you can buy an optional Skip Pass — it goes to the app, never to your partner, and your partner always sees it.)

Who can see my steps?

Only your partner. Your data isn't shared with anyone else or sold.

What if I have a rough day?

Tap "Forgive today" and the kindness is cancelled, no questions asked. Mercy first.

Can we change the task?

Yes — either of you can ask to reroll today's kindness, and it changes once you both agree (within 12 hours).